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Workbook series · No. 08

Kinder Voice: Self-Esteem Workbook

Get to know your inner critic, test what it says, find your strengths, and practice talking to yourself like someone on your side.

  • Self-esteem
  • Inner critic
  • Teens 13+ and adults

12 pages · US Letter PDF, print and fillable versions · For teens, adults, and the counselors who help them

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Cover of the Kinder Voice: Self-Esteem Workbook printable

What’s inside

Your inner critic probably thinks it's helping. Kinder Voice helps you meet it, understand what it's trying to protect, test what it says against the evidence, and practice a different voice: one that's honest and on your side. Includes a 3-step kind pause, a belief balance page, strengths finder, comparison check, wins log, and a 30-day tracker. Warm, plain language for teens and adults.

  • Meet my inner critic
  • Critic or coach?
  • The kind pause, 3 steps
  • Old belief, new balance
  • Evidence log
  • Strengths finder
  • Comparison check
  • A letter from someone on my side
  • Wins log
  • 30-day kinder voice tracker
All 12 pages, and who each is for
  1. Cover · cover
  2. Start here · Reader, clinician
  3. Meet my inner critic · Reader
  4. Critic or coach? · Reader
  5. The kind pause · Reader
  6. Old belief, new balance · Reader
  7. Evidence log · Reader
  8. Strengths finder · Reader
  9. Comparison check · Reader
  10. A letter from someone on my side · Reader
  11. Wins log · Reader
  12. 30-day kinder voice tracker · Reader
  • Preview of page 3, Meet my inner critic, from Kinder Voice: Self-Esteem Workbook
    Page 3: Meet my inner critic
  • Preview of page 5, The kind pause, from Kinder Voice: Self-Esteem Workbook
    Page 5: The kind pause
  • Preview of page 6, Old belief, new balance, from Kinder Voice: Self-Esteem Workbook
    Page 6: Old belief, new balance
  • Preview of page 8, Strengths finder, from Kinder Voice: Self-Esteem Workbook
    Page 8: Strengths finder
  • Preview of page 12, 30-day kinder voice tracker, from Kinder Voice: Self-Esteem Workbook
    Page 12: 30-day kinder voice tracker

How it’s used

Built for

  • Teens and adults with a loud inner critic
  • Therapists and counselors working on self-esteem and self-talk
  • Anyone who wants honest, kind self-talk practice

A simple flow

  1. Meet your inner critic and ask what it is trying to protect.
  2. Practice the 3-step kind pause when the critic shows up.
  3. Test old beliefs against the evidence and write a more balanced one.
  4. Log wins and strengths, and track the kinder voice for 30 days.

Informed by

From the PDF’s evidence snapshot (page 2): A 2012 meta-analysis found that people higher in self-compassion tend to report less depression, anxiety, and stress (MacBeth & Gumley, Clinical Psychology Review, PMID 22796446). That's an association, not proof of cause, but it suggests kindness toward yourself is worth practicing.

License: clinician use included

Clinician use included. Licensed for personal use, or one clinician using it with their own clients and students (print or share the PDF with people you serve). Please don't resell, redistribute, or upload to shared drives or marketplaces.

Get Kinder Voice: Self-Esteem Workbook

Instant PDF download right after purchase (print and fillable versions). Questions or refunds: contact us. Checkout is by Stripe; the seller on your receipt is Advantage Coaching, LLC.

Mason’s own product; Therapist Front Page earns from these sales.

Created by Mason Anglin, PsyD, LMFT, MBA · LMFT #121211 · Registered Psychological Associate #PSB94029529

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